Wednesday, 26 January 2011

It’s hard to catch up with what you’ve missed


Time rushes by so unmercifully fast that it doesn’t give us a chance to accomplish everything we plan.
Life is like a marathon. At first it seems endless, and you think you’ve got all the time in this world. But as soon as you approach the finish line you start regretting of all you could have done but hadn’t.
The most difficult thing to do is to catch up with time. It goes fast, and it only goes forward. You can’t wind it back, unfortunately… I guess, I’d give anything for a device that would wind time back. How much could have been done, how many plans would have been accomplished.
As for me I’ve lost a good deal of precious time and opportunities. I regret I didn’t develop any talent when I was a small kid. I wish I had mastered a musical instrument or attended dance or drawing classes. My childhood was a calm and restful period. And it was wasted. I wish I could have done something meaningful. However there is no use crying over spilt milk… Of course, I’m not an old wreck yet, and I can as well do it now. However, so much precious time was wasted, and it can’t be denied. That’s what I feel sorry for.
The thing it’s just impossible to catch up with what we’ve missed. To avoid the unjustified time loss, one should not sit open-mouthed and wait that someone would give them what they dream of but put thoughts into action. Perhaps, then time will even yield you a little bit.
 Still we have to keep in mind that once we’ve lost time, we won’t be able to get it back.

Deep thoughts vs. shallow words



Thoughts are mental processes going on in our brain due to different factors. Any human being can accumulate thoughts making some effort, of course.
If imagination may occur spontaneously basing on some previous experience or rich fantasy, a thought usually takes a considerable amount of brain work to be worked out.
However, it’s essential to distinguish between different kinds of thoughts. The easiest way to do it is to differentiate between the so-called “deep” and “shallow” thoughts.
1) “What kind of dress shall I put on for a night out: the one with a pink ribbon or the one with yellow buttons?”(a blond getting ready for a party);
2) “True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost”.
Both are thoughts but guess which one is deeper..?
Once we get a thought in your head, how do we express it? In what way do we retranslate it to others? The answer is by means of words. In this case a question arises. How can we possibly express deep profound thoughts by means of shallow words?
Well, first of all, we need to make it clear how one can define the shallowness of a word.
If we come to think of it it’s not that easy. Surely enough thoughts can be either deep or shallow but can words be classified in this way?
I just can’t figure it out for myself how one word can be deep and another one shallow. Well, words can be pompous, pleasantly-sounding, easy to read and so on but how can they possibly be classified according to the “deepness-shallowness” criteria?
Nevertheless, trying to attempt this classification, I’d say that slang words and swear words would be taken as shallow ones. However, it’s all pretty controversial, too. These words can also be used in expressing deep thoughts. They are especially good at creating the emotional background. Here’s a good provement:
“- Tell us about the war, man!
-The war in Vietnam?
-Yes! The war in Viet-fucking-nam!”
It doesn’t imply that these words make a deep thought. However, it shows that even swear words are apt to create a strong emotional outburst. Therefore, they can’t be classified as shallow.
If you want your thought to be profound and striking don’t bother much for pompous words. They are not the only way to create a great thought. Neutral words can also fit this task.
The best way to achieve the perfection is to be yourself, work out your personal style, follow and develop it.
If you start digging thoughts out of your heart, not out of your mind, these thoughts would matter a lot.
That’s what I call deep thoughts.